The pain I feel from any loss
Is not defined by that loss
But by my relationship to it.
What it means to me,
What significance I have attached to it.
No matter how hard a person may try
To soften the blow
To protect me
They cannot change that significance
They cannot reduce that pain,
Merely prolong it.
Only I can change my relationship to things.
Only I can change my attachments.
I will feel the pain that I will feel,
However long it takes,
Until I reach a level of completion
Sufficient to the significance
Allow myself to release.
I can always choose
Great to realise we do have a choice, even when at time it does not feel that way.
Beautifully expressed ❤